Dear Husband,
Today you sent me a text message saying you are leaving me and say you hate my attitude. Why must you always look at the dark side of me. Did you ever think of what good things i have done for you? All the sacrifices i have made for you? Is leaving me settle everything? Touch your heart babe, you will know the answer yourself. No one will or can know what your heart saying except for yourself. But why you still want to deny it and make the wrong choices? I am deeply hurt to your decision. You just give up on things which you yourself not sure the outcome. Every day i cry by myself. Every day i think how can i make you understand every word i'm saying to you. I never ask more than anything from you. I'm not like others wife who want this and that. I change for you to be someone who you want me to be but still not enough and still my mistakes. There is nobody for me to talk too. What should i do now? Each time i try to speak out about you, eventually it will become my mistakes. Each time i try to make you change, you will keep on saying you not like that and cannot be like that. There's a saying that when you love someone, you intend to change for that person and make more effort than they ever give. I'm sad and inexplicable feelings all over me. I'm sick, you still are leaving me. You said to me, no matter how bad it is, you will always be by my side because you know i need you and now, you forget about everything you said to me. I never beg anyone in my life before. I'm trying to hold my tears strongly but it keeps dropping by itself.
Today you sent me a text message saying you are leaving me and say you hate my attitude. Why must you always look at the dark side of me. Did you ever think of what good things i have done for you? All the sacrifices i have made for you? Is leaving me settle everything? Touch your heart babe, you will know the answer yourself. No one will or can know what your heart saying except for yourself. But why you still want to deny it and make the wrong choices? I am deeply hurt to your decision. You just give up on things which you yourself not sure the outcome. Every day i cry by myself. Every day i think how can i make you understand every word i'm saying to you. I never ask more than anything from you. I'm not like others wife who want this and that. I change for you to be someone who you want me to be but still not enough and still my mistakes. There is nobody for me to talk too. What should i do now? Each time i try to speak out about you, eventually it will become my mistakes. Each time i try to make you change, you will keep on saying you not like that and cannot be like that. There's a saying that when you love someone, you intend to change for that person and make more effort than they ever give. I'm sad and inexplicable feelings all over me. I'm sick, you still are leaving me. You said to me, no matter how bad it is, you will always be by my side because you know i need you and now, you forget about everything you said to me. I never beg anyone in my life before. I'm trying to hold my tears strongly but it keeps dropping by itself.
Divorce is not a simple matter and therefore it should not be treated lightly.
When staying married brings more harm than good and a divorce provides the only way of easing the upheaval in the house, then the couple may part, bearing in mind that divorce is the lawful thing that is most detested by Allah.
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| It must be remembered that Islam forbids a wife from asking for a divorce from her husband without reasons that are approved by the Law. Rasulullah s.a.w. said, | ||
| Any woman who asks for divorce from her husband without any reason permitted by syara, the sweet smell of paradise shall be forbidden to her." (Narrated by Abu Daud) | ||
| The hadith also applies to a husband who divorces his wife without good reasons, making the wife feel that she has been unfairly treated. It is haram (sinful) for a husband to divorce his wife during her menstrual period, or if he has had sexual intercourse with her during the period she is not menstruating, until her next menstruation. |
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